Welcome to the party! Today I am going to tell you how you can use NLP and modeling to become the person you truly desire.
The formula is not complicated however it does require process which means practicing over and over and over again to sharpen your skills.
It is simple but it is not easy. You can become a fine professional, an acclaimed superstar, or a polished world champion by how well you can model others who have accomplished the feats you desire.
Modeling is the process of recreating excellence. We can model any human behavior by mastering the beliefs, the physiology and the specific thought processes (that is the strategies) that underlie the skill or behavior.
When I first began modeling, I assumed I could just read the books and then I would magically morph into the person I wanted to become because I had read the knowledge. FALSE!
It took me several books and experiences in life to realize that I needed a process to study my library – a process to learn about the authors and contributors, their backgrounds, their lifestyle, their ambitions, and now I take notes on these elements.
I research my role models on Wikipedia, find their websites and bios, watch videos of them in action, read and subscribe to their works, and develop an overall perception of how they think and behave. Then I create some action steps and execute them over and over and over again.
I know that progress is found in the daily process and although I sometimes struggle to see the greater picture, I know that when I have selected qualities to model and also wisely the actions to get to those qualities, and take that action, then I will be one step closer to becoming a world champion modeler – a blogger, an entrepreneur, a traveler, and also a philanthropist.
That’s just me though, I believe it is about achieving an outcome by studying how someone else goes about it.
Modeling to me means developing my modeling skills based on behavior, ways of thinking, body language, ways of acting, even style and length of laugh.
Modeling is not mimicking or used for manipulation.
Instead, it is an interactive study of communication which develops your skills to be alike and similar.
I turn the skill on and off and when I am using the power of modeling, I feel like a giant superpower with a very unique super power!
This ends my ideas for tonight, I want you to find someone you want to model and do a tenacious study of their history and their journey TODAY. Watch videos of their mannerisms, and take copious notes which you will soon create action steps from. I will talk more about my process for modeling in the future on this website, thanks for reading my work!